Tuesday, January 17, 2017

A Belated but Awesome Update!!

Hey, sorry for the belated letter!!!

But, Hey, I’m here and alive and well! :)  We have permission to write a little late because our Pday was a little hectic!

But apart from this everything is good!!  Oh, first, Sunday was Elder Templeton’s birthday!!! I didn’t see him, but I’ll see him tomorrow, and I bought him and me matching ties (super cute right?)! Ha!  And yea, you guys should message his mom something cute! :) 

Also, Dad, remember how we had to shower with a bucket that morning in ThunderHill and we said it was mission training?? Well, it totally was!  Our shower head broke, fixed now, but we totally had to shower with a bucket for two days!!  So yea, that was a funny little memory!

This week we had a baptism!!  And I did it!  First try, no mistakes (answered prayer right there)!! Hahaha!  But really, everything was really great and the family was really happy!! (people here hardly smile in photos, I don't know why, haha, but yea, I promise he was happy!)! Hahahahahaah!



His wife is a member and their little girls are so adorable! :) I am extremely grateful for the opportunity I’ve have to be a part of their journey towards Christ! :)




Pictured above is Jiminez and I getting a ride to our comida (dinner appointment) one day.

Ahhh, okay, y que mas (what more)?...  OH man!  I’ve learned a bunch about myself this week, and how much I´ve already changed! Hahaha!  So, to start, I live with three latinos, and these guys are literally my best friends in the mission!  Elder Rodas, from Guatemala, and fact, I’m gonna visit his home after the mission and he’s gonna visit us, because he only has like 1 or 2 transfers more than me in the mission! :)  Elder Jimenez, mi compa (my companion), from Mexico City, un Chilango (a native to Mexico City), and he is a real hard worker and a real happy guy!  I’ve learned a lot from him, and I’ll actually add more on that later.  And finally, Elder Arellano, tambien.  He’s from Ciudad de Mexico (Mexico City too) tambien, and he went to Provo and he speaks casi (almost) perfect English (so we can totally gossip with each other Haha!). But yea these guys are literally the best! :) 

So, one day earlier this week, Elder Rodas and I were cooking dinner, and he was looking at photos on my camera and there was a super blurry picture and so I told him he could delete it... after about 15 seconds I hear "oh fetch no manches" que significa que (I knew that meant) something bad happened.  Turns out, since my camera is in English, he accidently deleted all my photos on my camera! (Why is that even an option? Hahahaah!) But yea, that happened!! And let me tell you, if that happened like 4 months ago, I woulda been really upset.  Ask Natalie about that and she’ll tell you she knows that’s easily something that would make me unhappy.

But literally, although I really didn’t want to lose my photos, when it happened, I didn’t even feel the slightest bit of anger or anything of the sort.  It was more of a "oh, that’s okay, don’t worry about it!" and really that night I reflected on that and surprised myself.  Elder Rodas felt super sorry and was pretty heartbroken, but everything is fine!  And the only thing I can credit or thank for this new kind of response is the mission, and Jesus Christ. I’ve been trying so hard to work on the Christlike attributes, Read Chapter 6 of Preach My Gospel (Click this link Preach My Gospel Chapter 6 for more details), and it’s been hard to know if I’m progressing, especialmente because truly taking on Christlike attributes is a super long process, right? Well, this happened, and I’m super humbled by it so I hope it doesn’t come cross as arrogant (because that’s something else I’m trying hard to avoid), but yea, this event just really testified to me that people can change with the help of Christ, with His help I can change.  And when we do our best to follow His example and His teachings, we will recieve blessings. I don’t know, I never can quite explain these things exactly right. But it’s cool, and I’d highly recommend trying to be more like Christ, and then look back and reflect on how much we have/can/will change with Him.

There’s another reason this event was important to me... earlier this week, I asked Elder Jimenez what defines a successful missionary, since he’s just about finished with his mission, and is an awesome missionary - and he told me that a successful missionary is one that returns different than when he left... one that is still an active member 20, 30 years down the road... their whole life, actually.  And this just struck me, because I only have 3 or 4 months or something out here in the field... but I’m already starting to see the change in me.  Yes, I’m still Nick and I still have a lot of flaws, and I’m talking a lot of flaws! Hahaha, but little by little, I’m seeing the Lord help me, a bit here and there, as He sees fit for me at the time. :) I don’t know, like I said, I struggle to write exactly what I feel, but I hope you guys can understand without me sounding prideful, because it’s not as much about me as it is about the way turning to Christ can change anyone... you know? :) 

Anyway, Rodas y Arellano have an investigator, and this guy is so golden it’s not even funny... he went tracting (proselyting) with Rodas and Arellano one day and he’s not even a member yet.  He’s 22, and is so supportive, Oh My Gosh!  I was talking with him one day and he said he’d like to be a missionary once he finishes school... And again, he’s not even a member yet!!!  Honestly, he’s an example to me and he always walks in faith and is so stinking supportive of the missionary effort. We should all strive to be a little more like him.

Apart from this I hope everything is good and I hope this week is amazing and that we all can take a moment a look back on our week and look at the blessings that God has given us, no matter how hard it may be to see. He always gives us blessings, even when it’s hard.

Love you all, until next time,
Nick

Nick wrote a letter to his sister, Natalie, responding to a question of why life has to be so hard sometimes... With her permission, I’d like to share his thoughts on the topic.

The fact of the matter is experience, even the bad stuff, is a gift you can use to help others.  

Let me share some thoughts with you :)

An example (we will use cars of course, because you're super old and gonna be driving soon)...  So, we're all on a road, right? We're all traveling on our individual little road. But sometimes, roads are pretty stinking steep, like at our old house in Loomis. Other times, it's straight up rocks and dirt, other times maybe there's puddle and we get stuck for a bit. But, after each obstacle in our road we're a little more experienced for the next obstacle, the next challenge, if you will. :)

But also with roads, as you know, there are intersections right?  There are moments when one road touches another, and then keeps going down their own paths (like King and Taylor :)  yea, I still remember a little bit back home)  And in our lives, these intersections are moments with other people.  At these moments we can help others using the information and experience we've received/learned to help them in their journey.  And then, we go on our way.  This is why things happen.

Nat, if there's something I learned out here in Chihuahua Mexico, it’s Spanish. Hahaha!, naw just kidding. Really, it’s that this church, this message, is for everyone. There aren't exclusions, there aren't exceptions, no if’s, and’s, or but’s.  Combine that and the experience you have from your 15 years gives you an awesome opportunity to really help people and become the most important friend that they could ever have.

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